When Your Church Disappoints You

Dr. Tim AllchinFor Those Giving Help, For Those Seeking Hope6 Comments

Far too often lately, our counselors at BCC have found ourselves in counseling with those who are questioning the church. Some now consider their church or pastor a “fraud” after seeing him written up in the news or an internet blog. Others in smaller church contexts might have gotten the latest juicy gossip and it sound like their pastor has … Read More

Shepherd or Sheepdog? Leadership Matters!

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We have been talking this week about how to deal with disappointment in church leadership, when and how to leave a church, and how to find a church where you can grow in your walk with God.  The reality is that church culture is often determined by how the leaders views themselves.  Do they mimic Christ in the way they … Read More

Handling Conflict Well in a Friendship

Dr. Lucy Ann MollFor Those Seeking Hope1 Comment

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FRIENDSHIP: Sometimes a friendship goes along just fine but then. . .WHAM. . .a conflict hits. So what then? WHEN A FRIENDSHIP TURNS SOUTH, what’s the best way to respond? Two thoughts may come to mind immediately. 1. Drop your friend. 2. Stick it out and repair the friendship. Which one seems best? What choice have you made in the … Read More

Behind the Scenes look at Contemporary Issues Live Event

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Recap Nearly 60 people gathered on Saturday, July 14th to grow in their ability to have conversations that encourage and comfort the hurting in their church and community.  Over the past 29 years, BCC has helped churches all over the United States and internationally grasp how the practicality of God’s word can meet people in their darkest moments of need.  Our Contemporary … Read More

Biblical Counseling Training in Ethiopia

Dr. Ron AllchinFor Those Giving Help4 Comments

Dr. Ron Allchin just returned from teaching Biblical counseling at Evangelical Theological College in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia, during the first two weeks of July. This was his 19th year to teach at the college during their “Rainy Season Session” where he has taught BCC’s training courses over the years to hundreds of ETC students and to many others in area … Read More

Being a Friend to Those With Mental Struggles

Dr. Tim AllchinFor Those Giving Help10 Comments

Have you ever been the person who got asked to help in these types of situations? Or have you seen something similar happen from a distance? People running into the auditorium asking for assistance to help a man clearly having some sort of mental breakdown, curled up in a ball in the church lobby. People walking by and looking but … Read More

Uprooted? God Roots You in Christ!

Dr. Donna HartFor Those Giving Help, For Those Seeking Hope2 Comments

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Ever feel uprooted? When we step out of relationship with God, we experience uprooted disruption in our inner being. Dr. Donna Hart, PhD, shares thoughts on uprooting. Her article appeared first here. It is used by permission. Thunderstorms and fierce windstorms can cause tremendous damage to trees and property. A recent storm in our area snapped the tops off some … Read More

Moving Your Church in the Right Direction with Biblical Counseling

Dr. Tim AllchinFor Those Giving Help2 Comments

At the bottom of this post is a free resource called 5 Mistakes Churches Make When Starting a Counseling Ministry.  In previous posts, we’ve asserted that: Biblical counseling is an opportunity to shepherd the church well Churches should embrace equipping one another to care for the body in creative and unique ways I don’t believe you can fulfill the whole … Read More